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Big Red Lines of Rhetoric
Posted by Bill So, I assume that you've heard about the "Deb Frisch Meltdown/Debacle." If not, Andy features one of the most succinct wrap-ups. Goldstein's original post is here, though access to his site has gone from non-existent to intermittent after a pair of DOS attacks. He informs me that he should be up an running soon. Does this surprise me? Well, not as much as one might hope. A raised profile in aggressive political blogging sets a writer up as the target of some pretty special hatreds; a certain active form of maniac channels a lot of personal frustration and anger into comparatively abstract political opinions. And it's not wholly surprising that a clearly unstable individual would cross such a fundamental line as intimating threats against the two-year old child of a hated pundit who presents despised political opinions, which in turn serve as a proxy for personal demons and existential dissatisfaction. There are aggressive, crazy people in the world, after all, and odds are a few of them will grace the blogopshere with particularly vile leavings from time to time. And when possible, they should and will be thoroughly smited, professionally and rhetorically speaking. Thoroughly. But what's truly surprising to me is the comments section at "Bitch PhD," the site of a relatively respected academic feminist blogger. There are voices of self-evident reason, to be sure: Assuming the quotes are accurate, she was way, way over the line -- I can't say that, given the demographics of it all, that I'd call what she said scary threats, but they were implied sexual threats against a small child. Really not comparable to He Who Shall Not Be Named, who before he started suing was just irritating. But then there's minimization like this: Yeah, threatening people's kids is fucking gross. Guess what? It happens all the time. As do rape threats and threats of sexual violence, by the way. You can't take every asshole troll seriously. "It happens all the time[?]" I wonder what online circles she travels in ... and supposing that she's writing more generally, lots of evil things "happen all the time" - does that make them unimportant or unworthy of serious treatment or consequence? 23: Yeah, it looks like the left says "that is not okay" when a leftie acts like an asshole, and the right either backs rightie assholes or just ignores them. But I haven't seen too many of these left/right bullshit dustups where the right has actually *condemened* their trolls. "Stupid" is aggressively asserting flimsy arguments. "Obnoxious" is placing your fingers millimeters from someone's face and chanting "I'm not touching you, I'm not touching you, I'm not touching you." Commenting about the sexual violation and death of a person's child is neither of these things. Bitch PhD continues:
I don't know whether she "deserved" to lose her job over it, but it is certainly to be expected. I just don't think that the "outrage" by Malkin and Goldstein's usual troop of monkeys is evidence of anything but their using small assholery as an excuse to perpetuate their much bigger assholery. Ah, the "Hey, look over there!" defense. I'd wonder: just what form of speech might meet her standard for deserving to lose employment as a college professor? And Malkin published the contact information on a press release issued by adults. Agree with her or not, it's a ridiculously evident world of difference from the topic at hand. And my favorite comment ... Actually Deb's got a point. The "she's threatening his child!!" thing is rich coming from a site where people seem to think sexual harassment is hilarious. ... equates subjectively interpreted commentary about a social and political issue to specific threats aimed at a person's two-year-old. Rick Moran outlines a responsibility for lefty bloggers to condemn the attack on Goldstein or effectively endorse it via silence. While I often agree with Moran, and certainly agree with many of his larger points in the post, I'm not buying the argument - even someone as hypercritical of Goldstein as Atrios has no duty to comment on the actions of an online nut who shares no direct affiliation to him or his site. But much more indicative of a rotten core to mainstream swaths of the online leftosphere will be the extent to which things like BitchPhD's subsequent rationalizations and minimizations of Frisch's behavior both exist - and will be tolerated or validated by ideological fellow travelers. Another blogger takes a shot at adequately expressing frustration with any minimization of Frisch's comments or the subsequent response to them: Ms. Frisch's actions deserve condemnation. But I have run into a problem. For my part, I'll simply say this: if you can't unequivocally condemn something like this, you've got a grubby soul. Posted by Bill at July 8, 2006 09:17 PM | TrackBack (1) Trackback PingsTrackBack URL for this entry: CommentsBut what's truly surprising to me But it isn't. Not really. Posted by: Allah at July 8, 2006 11:54 PM It is/was, kind of. Honestly, I thought that not even certain predictable quarters would touch it. Or if they did, they wouldn't actually brush off the threats themselves as inconsequential. Posted by: Bill from INDC at July 8, 2006 11:59 PM I guess I don't put anything past them anymore. Honestly? I'm surprised more of them haven't defended her. But it's the weekend. Wait 'til Monday. There are no bad people on the left, Bill. There are only good people who've been driven to desperation by conservative evil. Or so the crocheted throw pillow resting on my couch tells me. Posted by: Allah at July 9, 2006 12:07 AM Ok, slightly off topic but the next time some idiot asks me if I have seen Wag The Dog, Bowling for Columbine or *spit* The Corporation I am totally doing that "I'm not touching you!" thing. That will make it all better. Posted by: Flea at July 9, 2006 01:35 AM "It happens all the time[?]" I wonder what online circles she travels in ... " Here is an example from Pandagon last week: "All I know is the word “sweetheart” was used, and usually that means something like, “I hate women but can’t get my dick hard enough to rape one.” Near as I can tell, they travel in very, very tight circles, and the ensuing dizziness leads to a paranoid hallucenogenic state that is not very condusive to discourse. But I could be wrong. Posted by: B Moe at July 9, 2006 11:09 AM "All I know is the word “sweetheart” was used, and usually that means something like, “I hate women but can’t get my dick hard enough to rape one.” Good gravy. I use that all the time with my two female dogs...does that mean I want to rape them or something? I tell ya' these people have a pathology I just don't understand. Posted by: Steve Verdon at July 9, 2006 02:57 PM Thank you, Bill, for your kind notice. I've only just become aware you linked; neither the "trackback" nor "pingback" technologies are perfect, alas. cordially, De Doc Posted by: De Doc "For my part, I'll simply say this: if you can't unequivocally condemn something like this, you've got a grubby soul." Ok, here we go... 1. I condemn Deb for saying what she did. 2. I condemn Jeff for having the kind of site where flame wars can get to this point 3. I condemn all the "weeping ladies," who can't see it WAS JUST A FLAME WAR. All the hyperbole is sickening and disingenuous. Posted by: Ken at July 9, 2006 07:59 PM Ken - Talking about "tongue kissing" and murdering a toddler is not a normal "flame war," you sick, sick man. Seriously, there is something wrong with your head. I suggest you gather your superficial equivalencies, fashion them into a handy wire brush and scrub your brainpan. Hope that helps illuminate things for you a bit. Regards, Bill Posted by: Bill from INDC at July 9, 2006 08:12 PM Haven't seen many flame wars then have you, newbie? Did you think they came with Marquis of Queensbury rules? Fortunately, seasoned flame wars observers can see it for what it is and see YOUR "sick, sick," schtick for what is is too. Now, what part of "I condemn Deb," didn't you understand? Posted by: ken at July 9, 2006 08:19 PM Haven't seen many flame wars then have you, newbie? Did you think they came with Marquis of Queensbury rules? If you knew anything about me, you'd know how stupid and ironic that comment is. And most "seasoned flame war observers" know that intimating threats about molesting and killing someone's two year old is inhuman behavior that's beyond the pale of (most of) the nastiest internet discourse. With the exception of the NAMBLA/serial killer chat rooms that "some" may frequent, I suppose. Essentially, you're not really "condemning" Deb at all, given that you're brushing off her clearly unbalanced behavior as de rigeur, workaday meanness. Basically, you're a loser with no sense of proportion regarding how people view violent or sexualized comments about children. Oops - my time for explaining common decency to a rhetorical roach like you just ran out at a full 132 seconds. Goodbye. Posted by: Bill from INDC at July 9, 2006 08:25 PM Here are the posts where Frisch first appeared on my site. I guess I'm to be condemned for running the kind of site that can discuss issues seriously, and then leave comments open for others to discuss them to. Perhaps Ken is for leaving the discussion to PhDs only. So that they can tell us what to think and feel. Which, in Deb's case, is that some of us are subhuman, and our "progeny" expendable. Try thinking for yourself, Ken, instead of parroting things about my site that you've been told. Posted by: Jeff G at July 9, 2006 08:40 PM I learned everything I needed to know about you, your site and your fans when you made that NAMBLA crack. Way to go. Posted by: ken at July 9, 2006 08:53 PM Take a walk, ken. Neither me nor my "fans" minimize or rationalize violent, sexualized commentary about toddlers. In short, it's safe to say that we don't "appreciate your perspective." Posted by: Bill from INDC at July 9, 2006 08:57 PM Jeff....what she said was dispicable but you admitted you let it go on so she would "show her ass." That you weren't prepared for the ass you got is sad but you might have seen it coming is all I was saying. Despite all this I like your site, normally and have never "parroted," anything about it. I also abhor the DoS and hope the fiends get caught and punished. Posted by: Ken at July 9, 2006 09:01 PM I'm gone Bill. Save that NAMBLA line tho....this site can use it again I'm sure. Posted by: Ken at July 9, 2006 09:02 PM Only if you come back, I'm sure. Amusing that a relevant comment like that has you more up in arms, than, you know, Frisch's comments. You've got a level head on your shoulders, ken. Posted by: Bill from INDC at July 9, 2006 09:04 PM Troll alert. Posted by: Dean Esmay Ken -- I allowed her to show her ass because she insisted I'd ban her. She even gave a time by which I was to do it. The thing is, I didn't care much about what she had to say. I don't check my comments obsessively unless I happen to be online and not doing something else. So by "letting her show her ass" all I meant was I didn't ban her. She was doing fine making a fool of herself without the martyrdom that comes with being able to claim your free speech was stifled. I don't have comment registration. Part of that is that I receive hundreds of comments per thread sometimes. The downside is, lots of trolls drop by. Some of them I ban. But I don't police my comments all day and night. This is what many sites on the left that have comment moderation don't seem to understand. Posted by: Jeff G at July 9, 2006 11:42 PM Jeff: About the collectivists with comment moderation, who don't seem to understand? TW: projection. *wry grin* Posted by: De Doc Oooh! Ooh! Ooh! I wanna condemn. Can I condemn? I condemn Ken for condemning Jeff for having an open comment site, and for not putting the blame for the showing of ass squarely on the shoulders connected to the back connected to the hip connected to the ass of the person who showed it. Posted by: w3 at July 10, 2006 11:05 AM I condemn myself for being a party to the kind of site that allows Ken to condemn Jeff for having the kind of site where flame wars can get to this point. I'm surprised to see someone put forth the proverbial "had a short skirt and was asking for it" argument. Posted by: dorkafork at July 10, 2006 11:51 AM If Frisch deserves condemnation, what verb is adequate for the moral relativists who excuse, condone, minimize her actions? Uhm, don't know about a verb but how about a noun? We could call them....frischbait! (Pauses for the inevitable groans). Posted by: BrendaK at July 10, 2006 12:57 PM So, would being addicted to the scandal mean that I'd been Frischooked? |